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Posted: Wed 13:07, 04 Sep 2013 Post subject: hollister france Communication Mistakes in Marriag |
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"Let's Call The Whole Thing Off "
"You like potato and I like potaeto, You like tomato and I like tomaeto? Let's call the whole thing off?
"I'll wear pajamas and give up pajahmas"
Let's call the whole argument off
Have you and your spouse ever disagreed about what or how you said something? Your mate probably remembers you saying things that you know you never said. Read on to discover how to resolve the "he said, she said" argument.
I see a lot of couples get into a discussion of how the argument went. That is not going to resolve the [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] problem. I can guarantee that you are going to remember things differently.
So, if you like pajamas and I like pajahmas, I'll wear pajamas and give up pajahmas. For we know we need each other, So we better call the calling off off." Fred Astaire
This is one situation where you have to decide what is more important: proving [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] you are right or having a happy marriage. In my own "he said, she said" argument, I still think I remembered our disagreement correctly. However, [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] my wife [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] probably still thinks she was right. However, what is important is that we were able to move forward and resolve the issue.
"We know we need each other"
I know I said ,"I like potatos." She [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] swears I said, "I like potaetos"
It is a well-known fact there can be several [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] witnesses to an accident, and each witness will remember certain details differently. The "he said, she said argument" is the same principle. You both will remember the certain details differently.
A frequent communication mistake I see is when a couple argues about an argument. [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] Recently my wife and I had a "he said, she said" argument. An issue can [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] up that we had difficulty resolving because we were trying to figure out who said what, how was [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] it said, and when was it said.
We got bogged down in the details of the argument instead of dealing with the problem. At this point we just had [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] to agree to disagree. I [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] was not going to convince her that I was right about the details, and she was not going [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] to convince me that she was right about the details. Once we agreed to disagree we were able to work out the original issue.
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