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Jacqueline Sinfield is an ADHD coach and author hollister uk of the book, Untapped Brilliance: How to Reach Your Full Potential as an Adult with ADHD. She has worked in the healthcare field for nearly twenty years. She has an Honors degree in Psychology and trained & worked as a nurse in England before moving to Montreal, Canada where she has her own private coaching practise.
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I notice how easy it is for adults with ADHD to both minimize their achievements - "Well, anyone could have done it." - and to focus on what they haven't, didn't, couldn't louboutin pas cher do, rather than on nike air jordan pas cher what they DID do. If you made a difficult phone call or a big effort to arrive to a meeting on time, congratulate yourself and say, "Great job!" Allow yourself to bask in the warmth of this success for a minute before moving on to the next task. This is a much more effective method to encourage future successes than saying, "Well, I should be able to pick up the phone," or "everyone else arrived on time." This self-talk devalues your achievements and efforts and de-motivates you for future successes.
As well as positive moncler pas cher verbal encouragement, also give yourself physical rewards. Celebrating wins, or victories, no matter how small, also does wonders for your mental well-being. Just like a small child or pet, adults love to be acknowledged peuterey outlet for their achievements, and there is no better person to recognize your achievements than you.
When I use the term "reward," thoughts automatically go towards something naughty. Like food that is bad for you, or alcohol. However, there are many ways to reward yourself that are fun, enjoyable and healthy. A bath after you have worked out at the gym feels amazing, curling up in bed with clean sheets after a physically demanding day. Often what feels like a reward is in contrast to the activity jordan pas cher you have been doing.
The bigger the accomplishment, the bigger the reward. Graduating with a degree would quantify a BIG celebration, to acknowledge the big accomplishment. However, you should also reward yourself for every assignment you hand in on time and ever exam you hollister france sat on at a smaller level.
Positive self-talk will change your life! Not only will it make you feel good in the moment, it will also lift your self-esteem over time to new heights. That, in combination with a physical treat, www.msc-sahc.org/moncler.asp makes pushing the mental or physical pain barrier even sweeter!
Actions
1. Every time you do something that is a bit tricky, give yourself lots of praise.
2. As well as verbal praise, give yourself a physical reward too.
3. Match the size of the reward with the achievement.
4. Think ahead of time a few of your favorite healthy treats you would like to give yourself as a reward.
5. Notice how much more fun life is!

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